The Meaning of Hijab: Why Muslim Women Wear It
Hijab is not just a headscarf. It’s not a quick decision we make in the morning. It’s a conscious act of worship, a statement of loyalty to Allah, and for many of us, a daily test of patience and perseverance.
We were created with a natural love for beauty. We enjoy dressing well, being admired, and feeling noticed. Yet, the hijab asks us to choose His pleasure above the world’s gaze. Some days that choice feels natural and joyful. Other days, it feels like a quiet battle.
But here’s the comfort: Allah sees every single effort. Every moment we resist worldly approval for His sake is a moment written in our favour.
What is Hijab in Islam?
In Arabic, hijab means barrier or cover. In Islam, it represents both the outward covering of the body and an inner state of modesty in speech, behaviour, and thought.
Hijab isn’t just about hair. It’s about guarding the heart from pride and guarding the body from unwanted attention. It’s about dignity, safety, and honour.
Physical vs Spiritual Modesty
Physical modesty protects our bodies from being treated as public property. Spiritual modesty shields our hearts from arrogance, insincerity, and the need for constant approval. Together, they create a shield that preserves both our outer dignity and inner peace.
Why Muslim Women Wear Hijab
At its core, hijab is about choosing Allah over everything else. The Qur’an instructs:
"And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty..." (Surah An-Nur 24:31)
This isn’t a restriction. It’s an honour. It’s a chance to align our choices with our values and to remind ourselves daily: I belong to Allah.
Stories of Transformation and Freedom in Modesty
Many sisters describe feeling freer once they began wearing hijab, not trapped. Free from the endless cycle of comparison, free from the pressure to meet beauty standards, free from being valued only for appearance.
The Struggles of Wearing Hijab And How to Stay Strong
Hijab is a sacrifice. Just like fasting deprives us of food and drink, hijab deprives us of certain kinds of attention we might naturally enjoy. This isn’t because beauty is wrong, it’s because we’re redirecting it towards places it belongs.
Some days, the scarf feels heavy. Some days, the stares and comments sting. But these moments of struggle are acts of worship in themselves.
Small Steps to Build Consistency in Wearing Hijab
Pair your hijab with a daily dua: “Ya Allah, keep my heart steadfast and my intention pure.”
Keep a journal to remind yourself of your ‘why’ on hard days.
Surround yourself with sisters who uplift and encourage you.
Start with what you can manage. Progress is still progress.
Common Misunderstandings and Debates About Hijab
There’s a wide range of interpretations of what “proper” hijab looks like. Some prefer full coverage from head to toe; others follow less strict guidelines.
The way I see it, if I can pray in what I’m wearing right now, then it’s hijab. That personal standard keeps me focused on my own accountability instead of getting lost in comparisons.
Why Comparing Your Hijab to Others Can Be Harmful
Comparison often shifts the focus away from pleasing Allah to pleasing people. And that’s when hijab loses its true meaning. Support each other’s journeys, knowing everyone is at a different stage.
The Rewards of Wearing Hijab: Seen and Unseen
Allah knows the sacrifices you make. He knows the days when your hijab feels heavy, when the heat is overwhelming, when you endure awkward questions.
Every act of patience, every moment you choose Him over them, is recorded.
"Indeed, those who have said, ‘Our Lord is Allah’ and then remained steadfast – the angels will descend upon them..." (Surah Fussilat 41:30)
Some rewards you may feel now: peace, dignity, inner strength. Others will be waiting for you in the next life.
Choosing Him Over Them. Staying True to Your Hijab Journey
Hijab isn’t about perfection. It’s about sincerity. It’s about showing up every day with the intention to obey Allah, even when it’s uncomfortable, even when no one else sees.
So on the days you feel unseen in your hijab journey, remember: Allah sees you. And that’s all that matters.
Hijab is a daily act of worship and some days, it’s a struggle. In the Village, you’ll find women who understand, share your values, and walk beside you. Join us here at Sojourn Mother & Child 🤍
